Love. The energy signature of God. All of our lives we seek for it, we dedicate our whole lives on finding the right one, we go from heartbreak to heartbreak and so on and so on. We seek it in our parents, in our friends, in everything. And when we don’t find what we “think” it will makes us happy, all the kinds of discord begin with the urge of blaming, criticizing and extreme neediness.
“They are my parents, they supposed to love me and do all that is good for me”. “She is my girl, she is supposed to call me every hour.” “He didn’t send me a message, it means he has other priorities, I come second” etc etc. All the mambo jumbo of the Ego arises on the surface when our “needs” are not meant. I need this to be happy, I need to be approved, I need to be heard, I need to be loved.
Need creates more need and therefore deeper issues and problems. Bigger the needs, bigger the gap. Love you see is an energy which resides within everything. We have the capacity to even love ourselves and feel complete and at ease! You see you don’t need something external, you only need to hear yourself and BECOME the love you want to experience!
When you focus on people who YOU think they don’t love you, then you will amplify this creating even MORE of the confusion and the chaos, making it even more difficult to believe in anything else, as what you believe and focus tends to grow huge. Remove your attention from the perception of “this is this and because of that it must do this” therefore some things, some scenarios and some people “must” have the love essence towards you.
When we need to be approved and accepted it means in a deeper sense that WE need to accept and approve ourselves so we will NOT need the approval of anyone.
How uniqueness would exist if everything was lovable, beautiful, ideal and the same? How could we develop and progress when we are approved while we need to see in depth what needs to change and act accordingly?
Love is the final step on the “ladder of virtues”, the most difficult virtue to attain, the one that resides to the realm of God Himself. The life itself is a journey through the peeling of the layers of programming in order to accept, give and finally BECOME love.
Be humble my friend, always love with all your force and 77 times forgive and let go. Love is by far the strongest weapon and is used correctly only by the bravest of this planet. Give, give and give always. And when someone gives ANYTHING to you even at that time seems not satisfying or enough just take it and be grateful. Accepting love comes from the humbleness of not expectation, of the appreciation of EVERYTHING that is given to us and from recognizing the walls of egoic pride which makes love impossible to come as these walls have “statements” of which kind of love is permitted to come inside. We usually look for love to come through family, beautiful handsome lovers and amazing friends. Love comes from everywhere and always. Look. Even now. The moment you are having, reading this article, breathing and having the chance to be alive. This is Love. The kind of love that is so subtle but it the main reason you are alive. So appreciate. Appreciate this moment that is full of love.
Call a friend. Send a message. Say sorry. Create a beautiful moment for someone, or even for you. Namaste. Love is the Law. Love Under Will.
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